Have you ever asked: What’s my purpose?
It’s my experience that the golfers who are resilient, have the most fun, and play well are firmly grounded with a sense of purpose.
Tim O’Connor
Sadness and joy in the same instant: the paradox of sharing our grief
For the next few days, I was energized, and more content than I’d felt in weeks. It occurred to me that we experienced something that night that we couldn’t have expressed back in the day. — Tim O’Connor
You have a choice: listen to your story, or keep swinging
“My little mantra to myself was keep swinging; keep swinging hard at it even if you’re not hitting fairways, just keep swinging,”
The futility of trying to make sense of something that cannot be understood
I’m learning that grief is strange. I’ve found the greatest solace comes when I recall a particular memory with Corey or, say, study a picture of him and drop fully into the pit of my anguish.
Make it your intention to play with intention this season
Intentions also foster heightened awareness of what we’re doing, thinking and feeling. They help us stay present. They remind us that when we react when we inevitably screw-up, we can respond by focusing on our intentions.
My come-to-Bruce moment: How I learned to stop thinking and actually listen
Something was released in me that had always been there, but I had bottled it up behind a façade of reserve, a need to stay vigilant and protected.
Ack, we lost. Do we have another choice but to writhe in agony? Well, yes
Maybe this loss, which sucked and still sucks, will be one day be looked upon for the Jays, for the hard-core fans and everyone who jumped on board, as a gift.
Will our agony watching the Blue Jays be rewarded by ecstasy?
I coach highly aspirational golfers who are seeking to overcome their mental heebie jeebies when they most want to play well, which is what we all want—for ourselves and for the teams we root for.
No one wants to hit bad shots but “avoidance” makes them more probable
Focusing on what you want to avoid means you’re worried about the future. Focusing on the task at hand allows you to be in the moment, present.
